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Young boy wearing a coat and woolly hat looking sad.
Non-Speaking Autism

He’s not normal

It was only a whisper, but I heard it. “He’s not normal.” And my ears closed up a little bit. It was a young girl explaining to her little brother, why my son, who is autistic and non-speaking, was acting…

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An illustration of a mother with blue hair, embracing her baby son with blue hair in a loving embrace with hearts and nature surrounding them.
Non-Speaking Autism

What causes autism?

Autism is the mum’s fault. We are emotionally cold ‘refrigerator mothers’. All cold and frosty with no warmth.  We’re like prison camp guards who have dysfunctional relationships with our children. That’s why they’re autistic. Shocking hey?! Since autism was first…

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A mum with brown shoulder-length hair in a slightly off-centre red cape holding onto her baby looking at him lovingly.
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Special needs superpowers

There is often an assumption that parents of children with additional needs have “special needs superpowers”. That our child was magically “matched” to us because of our superb parenting qualities. I don’t believe that. I think our children make us…

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Non-Speaking Autism

No test for autism

There is no test for autism. No genetic test, prenatal test, blood test, or urine test will come back saying, ‘yes, this person is, without any shadow of a doubt, autistic’. Instead, in the UK, you are dependent on a…

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Two boys playing in the sand on a beach together. One with ear defenders and one wearing a sun hat.
Family Life, Non-Speaking Autism

Never give up

I wasn’t sure this picture would ever happen. Every year, we go to Bournemouth, and every year, Josh, our autistic son, has refused to go anywhere near the beach. We had reluctantly accepted it. And made plans around it.  One…

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The unspoken words in a speech bubble
Non-Speaking Autism, Speech Devices

Unspoken words

“Orange.” He said. His first-ever spoken word.  One we thought we’d never hear. But my son didn’t say it with his mouth. He said it with his speech device, Monty (Proloqou2Go). He was 5 years old, and his speech hadn’t…

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